Anonymous asked: i know this sounds extremely naive and stupid and slight obsessed but i legitimately feel like im in love with this guy and i haven't even met him. he doesn't know i exist, i've never even seen him in real life. but everything about him the way he smiles and talks and laughs it completely breath taking and consuming and i always reject boys in rl because i only want him. he, who doesn't know me or anything, he is what i want and i don't want anything else. ever. never.

Well you should talk to him before it gets too late, if you never express your feelings for him, you’ll never have your chance with him.

Anonymous asked: Before Spring break started I was stressed out and a total mess. But, being away from school made me feel more of myself again. I feel amazing! Any idea on how I could keep my sanity at school too?

I think you just needed a break and that’s what you got, and that’s why during your spring break you were really happy and being yourself. When you go back to school (if you haven’t already started) just keep in mind that it’ll be over soon, i know it’s hard to tell yourself that because school can be hard. Just try to think about positive things throughout the day. No negative thoughts. Or at least try. That should help.

Anonymous asked: actually - i could use some advice. None of my friends understand, parents never seem to understand, and he's fucking gone. Phone numbers changed, contact information - changed. I dont even know where he is anymore. He was the one thing keeping me sane. I sound so fucking stupid and dependant but i promise you im not. I dont need another person to start judging me. My thoughts are honestly a jumbled mess but point is - it's been a while since we broke up. There has to be a way to lessen the pain

There is a way to lessen the pain, you try to move on no matter how hard it is. You hang out with your girls more and do things that make you happy. Stop making your thoughts involve him, talk to more people or just keep venting like you’re doing now. It’s not worth being upset so much over. Everything’s gonna be just fine soon, you’re beautiful and you deserve someone who cares about you. You’ll find that one day.

Anonymous asked: he seems to have forgotten about me. why cant i do the same? my tumblr is basically dedicated to him - i still love him but it's complicated. im not asking for advice just needed to get a part of my thoughts out; and i trust you.

I know how you feel, it’ll get better eventually. Try focusing on other important things. If he doesn’t care, you shouldn’t either. Aw good, thank you :)

Anonymous asked: i really want to kill myself.. he broke my heart even though he said he wouldnt..

You shouldn’t ever wanna kill yourself though, especially over a guy for sure. He broke your heart, oh well. I know it might feel like the end of the world right now but I promise you’ll get over it really soon. You’ll find better, and you’ll find someone who loves you for you and someone who doesn’t treat you the way he did. If you kill yourself, how will you move on and find better? It’s not worth it at all. Move on and show him that he’s replaceable, don’t show him that you’re hurt, that’s what he wants. It’ll get better.

prendre-voiture asked: I've been dating this guy for 4 months and we've dated before, but because it ended badly last time, I'm always afraid that I'm gonna lose him again. He's a much better boyfriend this time around and he assures me that he's not going anywhere, but when I get to thinking, I just can't figure out how to calm this uneasy feeling in my stomach.. Help :(

If you’re second guessing your relationship and having those thoughts, it’s better to talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel, you know he changed but you really want it to last. Let him know that and I’m sure he’ll do whatever he can to fix those thoughts in your head and make everything better between the two of you. 

Anonymous asked: I was just told to kill myself by the boy I think I love

Well then that boy you think you love, clearly isn’t someone you want to have any feelings for whatsoever. Being told to kill yourself is very personal, and it hurts. It doesn’t matter who said it, or how they said it, you don’t deserve that. Stop talking to him if he really feels that way, until he gives you a sincere apology, keep your distance.

Anonymous asked: my boyfriend called me fat and it bothered me but he said he was joking.. help? :c

You should never call a girl fat even if you’re joking, so for him to think that that’s okay is completely wrong and unacceptable. Tell him it bothered you, you don’t deserve that at all. No one does. You’re beautiful.

Anonymous asked: i've been crushed by my crush.. how do I get him sorry?

Move on and show him that you can find 10x better than he ever was.

Anonymous asked: Hi, i need your help, lol. cosmetic breakdown 101. haha. i've never been one for eyeshadows but i love the smokey eye look.. i was just curious what i would need to get this look. i heard urban decay palette is really good but would i need a base count for under that? haha oh dear, this is so confusing. could you like break it down for me? aha sorry to be a pain

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Found some videos for you, using the Urban Decay  palette. Hope they work. Good luck :) 

seahfoam asked: I'm so depressed I miss my boyfriend he lives so far away...2000 miles sometimes I forget how much I love him it scares me. I hate it I get so stressed and scared

You shouldn’t let the miles between you guys jeopardize how you feel about him, if it’s really worth it and you really love him, forgetting shouldn’t be an option. Don’t stress over it, ever. Stressing over relationships doesn’t always turn out too good. Just try to focus on good things, and talk to him if it gets too much for you.   

Anonymous asked: So this guy friend of mine asked me to prom and I said yes and ever since then he has been texting me a lot an wanting to hang out all the time and I know him well enough to know that he likes me and wants to be more then friends, and Im trying my best to convey that I just want to be friends but he's really not getting the message. How do I make him nicely realize I just want to be friends, while still being his date to prom?

I think the best thing to do, would honestly just tell him that you don’t wanna ruin your friendship with him and that you like your friendship with him the way it is now, and if anything else happened after that you wouldn’t want it to ruin it. Tell him before it doesn’t end well, and he feels like you’re leading him on. Have fun at prom though :)

Anonymous asked: one of my friends has always kinda ditched me for other people and we just grew up differently and she's just not the girl that I became best friends with, and after a year of constantly being hurt by her I'm finally not caring about her and kinda giving her up as a friend... do you think that's bad because a lot of people say I shouldn't give up on her but she's not really even a good friend..

If she’s hurting you, and putting you through so much stuff that you cant handle anymore, it’s better to let her go. You deserve people in your life you make you happy, not bring you down all the time.

Anonymous asked: is it normal to be stressed as a teen?

I’d say it’s pretty normal, I don’t think you should stressed a lot. I think it’s kind of normal to happen because at your teenage years you’re trying to find yourself, and figure out who you are and what you wanna be. You lose people, people change, and promises are broken. That’s normal to stress over. Especially during high school. 

Anonymous asked: my family has been really mean to me lately. what should i do.

Tell them that it bothers you, and even if they don’t listen, it’d help if you just got it off of your chest.