sometimes, for like a second, I think I’m pretty. but then I see pictures of people like Emma Watson and other gorgeous people. so then I’m like oops never mind I’m uglier than a sloth so better go eat McDonald’s and make myself hate me even more
You’re beautiful. Don’t bring yourself down like that, I know it’s hard but you have to remember that. You’re beautiful in your own special way, you might not realize it right now, but other people see you for what you truly are and that’s beautiful. Don’t let society tell you otherwise, stay beautiful.
Anonymous asked: how do i get over my first love?
It’s gonna take a while because it’s the first person you’ve ever truly gave your all to, but you have to try to focus on other things that make you happy. You might think it’s the worst thing in the world right now, but it’s not. Trust me. You’ll get over it soon, just do other things. Hang out with your friends, read more, write more, do random things to keep you happy.
Anonymous asked: So I like this guy but he probably doesn't even know I exist but we've made eye contact before but I want to get to know him... What do I do ? Please help me :((
Say hi to him, if you see him out or something. Find his facebook or twitter or instagram or something. Don’t put yourself out there too much, you don’t wanna come off as clingy/desperate. Let him come to you.
Anonymous asked: feeling of rejection again. so i did what came naturally to me in the moment. i showed him the conversation. and idk i feel like i just crushed his spirits. shes a really nice girl, but shes also really blunt. and i showed him with a feeling so he wouldnt make a fool of himself if she said no. but now i just feel guilty as fuck. he left to go 'take his brother out' but i can't get the feeling that i disappointed him. its driving me mental. do you atleast understand? i apologize - this was long
You didn’t do anything wrong, honestly you were just trying to help him out and you did nothing wrong. Im sure he’s okay, he’s probably just a little surprised that he put that much time and energy into someone who didn’t really care about him as much as he cared about her. You’re the right girl for him, in my opinion. Don’t stress too much over it.
Anonymous asked: trying to stay positive and keep a positve everyday is hard so idk how to "be happy"
It is hard, and I’m not gonna try to convince you that it’s not. It takes time to be happy all the time and look for the positive in every situation but at the end of the day, it’ll make you a better person. You just have to find something that makes you happy. Books, writing, music, your favorite celebrity, favorite tv show, anything that’ll keep you happy can honestly go a long way. You’ll be happy soon.
Anonymous asked: So I got into a fight with my bestfriend cause she hung out with my younger sister a lot. And I miss her and all but I don't know if I can deal with my sister and her talking crap about me again. Should I text her and just forget about all that happened in the past or just move on and not talk to her? By the way we haven't talked for about 4 months now.
How are you certain that when they hung out, they were always talking about you? You can never be too sure, maybe they just really liked hanging out, and if you don’t like it you can tell your younger sister you feel like she’s taking your friend away from you, she’s your sister I’m sure she’d understand. Just ask her if you ever came up in their conversations, I’m 100% sure that if it’s your best friend and your own sister, they wouldn’t be talking about you. Just ask her how she’s been.
Anonymous asked: How long do you think you should be in a relationship before you have sex?
Just until you know you really love the person you’re with. I’d say until marriage but most people don’t believe in that nowadays. When you know it’s real, thats when you take your relationship to that level.
Anonymous asked: I hope he realizes because I treated him nothing but with love and care. I'm trying my best to forget about him. Thank you for your advice, I could really use it at this time.
If he comes back around it’s meant to be, if not you should let him go. Anytime :)
Anonymous asked: I still like, possibly love, the guy who fucked me over. He is 'known' as a player, and we had a thing in the beginning but then got ruined by my friend. Now he's avoiding me, who knows what she told him about me. I don't know how to react to this. It's honestly killing me. He was my first kiss, my first feeling, everything. Now he has a girlfriend and just left me like this..
Don’t waste your time, if he really cared about you he wouldn’t have screwed you over in the first place. Let him be happy with his girlfriend, he’ll realize what he’s missing out on really soon.
Anonymous asked: For a month now, I feel as if my life went completely downhill. I'm annoyed with the life I'm living. I'm probably the shyest person you would ever meet and I keep to myself A LOT. I want to drop everything I have now and just leave this terrible city. I just can't stand it anymore...
Sometimes keeping to yourself can be what’s best for you, it’s better to be alone then to be constantly brought down by others around you. I know it’s hard right now but it’ll get better I promise. Just vent to whoever you need to vent to, including me, and you’ll be fine before you know it!
Anonymous asked: hi okay so im a pregnant teen (15) and i know i sound like a slut but it wasnt planned at all.. anyway i really don't know what to do right now. do you think im disgusting?
You’re not disgusting. It’s gonna be hard for you for a while because you’re young and you have a lot to get used to, but don’t beat yourself up over it. You’re a beautiful girl and you don’t deserve to feel disgusting in any way at all. Talk to your mom about it. I know you’re probably disappointed in yourself right now, but you’ll be fine soon. I hope everything works out.
Anonymous asked: So my sister is pregnant, which means shes hormonal and such. Shes such a fucking bitch to me, she always takes her anger out on me. I'm so fucking sick of it. I know it may sound like im a heartless person because i dont care that shes hormonal, but what should i do? Shes just such a bitch, i could like not talk to her all day and then she would be nice, and then when i would talk to her she will be a bitch again, what should i do?
Since she’s pregnant, of course that’s normal for her to be a little over the top angry all the time, it’s just nature you have to deal with that haha. It’ll be over soon. You just have to remember that she’s not doing it on purpose, she’s probably just tired and in pain. Don’t stress too much about it, just try to do more things with her and show her that you care, that’s all she needs right now.
Anonymous asked: Hi so i really need advice. There was this kid that i had a 'thing' i guess you could say with for about a month And i know it was probably really stupid but i let him do things not sex but along the lines of sex I just thought he cared I thought he liked me And people warned me They said he had a girlfriend and he kept saying no I guess i just didn't want to believe he would do that And now he says he is dating her and can't talk to me It hurts What do i do?
Well it’s clear that he was using you and you didn’t deserve that at all, if I was you I wouldn’t even worry about him. I know it hurts and it’s gonna hurt for a while but honestly, he didn’t deserve your time in the beginning so I wouldn’t even try to give him any now.
radiantless asked: i'm tired of crying. tired of everything. since the start of the school i cry every night. everyday i pray for make things get better but nothing happen. i don't know whta is wrong with me but every body is against me and i am just tired of that ..
Nobody’s against you, they just don’t know you. Stop being so afraid of what others think and put yourself out there, let them know that you’re a cool person to be friends with and you don’t deserve to be treated like that. Don’t show them that it bothers you, smile in front of them and you’ll be remembered for that. Everyone doesn’t have to like you, it’s life. School can be hard, but it’ll be over soon. Keep venting, you’ll be fine.