Anonymous asked: me and this guy were together. everyone knew we were a thing and we made it very obvious. we had an instant connection. he met my parents like a million times and they loved him. he took my viginity.. and i totally okay with that and everything was great like i felt comfortable giving it away to him because he meant so much to me and i have always waited for the right guy. 2 weeks later he stopped talking to me. i cant help but feel regret.. does this make me a bad person for giving it to him?
Not at all. You were in a relationship with someone who meant a lot to you and there was real feelings there. Just because it didn’t end in marriage, doesn’t mean you should regret it. Things don’t always work out but you have to look back at it and say that at least you two were together and happy. If he stopped talking to you for no reason, ask him about it. Confront the problem and work it out. Maybe it doesn’t have to be over. :)
Anonymous asked: My sister is really mad at me for absolutely no reason. She won't tell me why and she says I'm doing right now whenever I text her. Everyone always tells me she's so mean to me but I don't wanna lose her because she's my best and only real friend. I don't know what to do.
Give her some space. Maybe she feels like you’re smothering her and she just needs some time to herself. More than likely, it’s not you. If she won’t tell you what’s wrong, let it go and allow her to have personal time to get over whatever she’s going through. Just be there for her when she needs you to be. You’re not going to lose her, she’s family! It’ll be over soon. :)
evenings-possibilities asked: I really, really love your blog and i was just wondering if you could tell your followers to check out my new poetry blog and msg me what they think of it as I'm still a beginner and still learning. I would really appreciate it and i also follow back. Thank you so much. xx
jaiourboy asked: theres this boy and I've liked him for over 2 years now, we was together last summer, and he messaged me on thursday night, saying he 'liked' me. He asked me if i liked him, and i said yes, and the next day he asked me if i meant it and i said yes, and he said he did, but he hasnt spoken to me since then and its bringing me down and upsetting me, like to the point its kept me up at night. i really need someone to tell this too. help?x
Hm, that’s weird.
Ask him why he’s being so distant, especially after you two had that talk. Also ask him where his feelings lye and try to talk everything out. If feelings and chemistry are there, make it happen! I think you two just need better communication, if anything. I hope everything works out, love!
Anonymous asked: I have terrible anxiety. I was put on Deplin, which if you don't it is an anti-depressant, which is for Major Depression Disorder. I am also very depressed. I guess it makes me happier, but it doesnt help with my anxiety, like at all. I still get the lump in my throat, like i used to, i still have anxiety attacks, i still hyperventilate, it all still happens. Does this mean that my anxiety is worse than i thought? Should i be put on Xanax?
Before you go ahead and prescribe yourself that heavy medication, I’d talk to your parents and your doctor first. Explain how you’re feeling and that you think you might need something a little more affective. I know where you’re coming from firsthand, but I really think you should only go on that medication if you absolutely need it. Talk to your doctor before jumping right into something that intense.
Anonymous asked: have you ever been scared no one will ever love you? that you'll spend your whole life alone? I've never been on a date or been kissed and most of the time nobody even notices me. I can't help but think its the way I look. I don't want to be alone anymore. idk why i'm sending you this but I guess it had to be said. i've never told anyone before.
Your outer image has nothing to do with who you are as a person. Once you learn to accept your exterior, you’ll be so much happier and everyone will notice. You’re not alone, tons of people feel the same way. We all do every once in awhile. Don’t doubt your look because it’s you. It’s original, it’s absolutely beautiful, and it’s perfect. Because it’s you. You can go to an art gallery and some people will walk right by what you consider to be the most gorgeous painting in there. But somebody else will love it.
Just like how somebody will see your true beauty and you will be loved the way you want to be loved. Probably even more than that. Hang in there, gain some confidence. Go out and do some activities that make you happier. There’s not a time limit on these kind of things. Life is great when you stop worrying about how it’s supposed to be lived. When it’s your time, it’ll happen. Have a little faith. :)
Anonymous asked: Ok so I have this friend and she's beautiful but lately she has been neglecting her appearance and I know that what's on the inside is what counts but she comes to school everyday now with really greasy and oily hair when it used to be so nice and shiny. I've tried giving her hints but she's no picking up on them. Our other friends have noticed too but we have no idea how to tell her without hurting her feelings. (And no nothing is going on with her she's always brutally honest and straight up)
Well that’s the problem, you’re kind of assuming she’s fine and that there’s nothing wrong. Maybe she really is going through something and she doesn’t wanna talk about it, or maybe she’s just been having bad hair days. Don’t think too much about it, I’m sure she knows what’s going on with her appearance lately, she probably is just trying to focus on school work.
Anonymous asked: 2) I told her I wanted to be his girlfriend, and she replied back with, "Bye." And I've tried to talk to her about it all but she won't reply back to me and I don't know what to do. I told her I'd stop contact with him and already did to have her friendship back. But she still won't talk. When they don't even talk anymore; I feel like I'm being a good friend. What would you do if you were me?
She probably just doesn’t know you were drunk and she thought you were being serious, explain that part to her and let her know you don’t wanna lose your best friend over a guy who’s not even in the picture anymore.
Anonymous asked: i would like some advice to fix my face please. my crush himself laughed at the thought of asking me to the dance and went for my stunning bestfriend. just once, even for a moment - i want to feel beautiful. not for him, or anyone else tbh, to me.
You don’t need a guy asking you to a dance to feel beautiful. If you wanna feel beautiful look in the mirror and literally fine 5 things you like about yourself ad I guarantee you’ll feel better by the end of the week if you do that everyday. I believe you’re beautiful on the inside thats all that matters.
Anonymous asked: i have a question.. so i'm 17 almost 18 years old and i've never had a boyfriend or my first kiss. i'm a senior in high school so i'm a little younger than other people. i just feel really insecure about not having experienced that sort of stuff yet. idk. i just feel really stupid i guess. ugh what do i do?
It’s fine, at least you’ll have something to look forward to when you do get the chance to be with someone. It’s not always as fun as it looks, with relationships come lots of responsibility and right now I feel like school should be the only thing you’re worried about. Especially since you’re a senior, I mean you’re graduating soon, after that you’ll be considered an adult and you kind of have to learn to do things on your own anyway. Don’t rush into anything, you’ll find someone for you don’t worry.
justgirlysecrets asked: I enter this blog, my mood changes. My heart races when you answer my questions or sweet messages. I literally melt, because this blog is nothing but pure beauty. I want to thank you for appreciating each and every one of us. We're all beautiful and worthy, full of dreams and dignity. I'm very blessed and thankful to be a part of everyone on here and that if you ever need me I'll be here.
That’s amazing. I’m really glad I could do that for you.. You’re beautiful. Thank you so much.
Anonymous asked: This might be a bit weird but, my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time and I started bleeding heavily.. I'm really scared right now and I don't want to have sex with him again so I make up lame excuses..
That only happened because it was your first time, it’s nothing that he did or that you did, it’s just what happens to some people when they do it for the first time. If you don’t wanna do it again that’s completely fine, just let him know that so he doesn’t feel like he did something wrong.
emilieeeexo asked: Ok so I like this guy and we talk sometimes and we have mutual friends. And I want to become good friends him first but like I'm nervous when I talk to him and idk what to talk about and don't wanna say the wrong thing and sound dumb! Ugh help please
It’s completely normal to be nervous around the guy you like, so don’t think that you’re doing anything wrong. Just try to get over that by spending more time with him alone, like not with so many of your mutual friends. Maybe if you go to the same school just start small talk with him, ask him how his day is going. Say hi, something simple but don’t put yourself out there too much. You won’t say the wrong thing if you just start off slow.
iwontapologizeforwhoiamm asked: I'm ugly as fuck and fat as a whale :'(. I can't stand it anymore.
You’re not ugly and or fat, you just make yourself believe that because you’re not being told you’re beautiful enough. You’re beautiful and I know it’s hard to believe yourself when you say that because people are constantly making you feel like you’re not but you have to get enough confidence to tell them you’re not what they think you are and you’re so much better than that. Ignore them if people are making you feel this way, or even if you just think about yourself that way, stop it. You don’t deserve that at all. You’re beautiful and if anyone tells you otherwise they’re lying. The inside is what counts the most anyway.